Helping Others Helps us Too!

Helping Others Helps Us Too is a growing collection of different ways that people the world over view the importance of helping others in need. I hope that you enjoy this selection and check back now and then as new voices are added all the time.

Helping Others Helps Us Too!

When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”
– Fred Rogers

One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to interHelping others helps us too. drawing of sheltering a seedling, Helping Others Helps Us Too!vene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it.
– Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes

The grass is not, in fact, always greener on the other side of the fence. No, not at all. Fences have nothing to do with it. The grass is greenest where it is watered. When crossing over fences, carry water with you and tend the grass wherever you may be.
– Robert Fulghum

Caregiving often calls us to lean into love we didn’t know possible.
– Tia Walker

I am gift. All that I am is something that’s given, and given freely. Being doesn’t cost anything. There’s no price tag, no strings attached.
– Thomas Merton

Lighthouses don’t go running all over an island looking for boats to save; they just stand there shining.
– Anne Lamott

I shall not pass this way again:
Then let me now relieve some pain,
Remove some barrier from the road,
Or brighten some one’s heavy load.
– Eva Rose Park

Service to others is the rent you pay for living on the planet.
–  Marian Wright Eddelman

We will be known forever by the tracks we leave.
– Dakota Proverb

If your everyday practice is to open to all your emotions, to all the people you meet, to all the situations you encounter, without closing down, trusting that you can do that — then that will take you as far as you can go. And then you’ll understand all the teachings that anyone has ever taught.
– Pema Choddron

Never reach out your hand unless you’re willing to extent an arm.
– Elizabeth Fuller

Everyone needs help from someone.
Berolt Brecht

No matter how lofty you are in your department, the responsibility for what your lowest assistant is yours.
– Bessie Rowland James

What do we live for if not to make life less difficult for  each other?
– George Eliot

I see their souls, and I see them in my hands, and because I love them, they weigh nothing.
– Pearl Bailey

Ways of Helping Others

For some people, helping others on a regular basis just comes naturally in the course of living their lives. It just happens. But other people who seek to serve humanity find that connecting with established agencies like the United Way, Boys and Girls Clubs, The Lions Club or YMCA works best for them. Established service organizations that are in affiliation with faith communities such as Catholic Charities, American Friends Service Committee or Pencils of Promise feels the most natural way to go for still other folks. The point is to just find a way to give and share whatever we can, with the unintended byproduct being that Helping Others is good for the heart and soul also!

K. Lee